Top Mistakes that Brides Make...

In the Wedding and Event Planning business details are crucial to pulling off as close to perfect of an event as possible.  Below are some common mistakes that should be avoided if you want to leave your guest talking in a good way:

#1.  Hire a Wedding Coordinator

  Not hiring a planner is a critical mistake for various reasons starting with, "Who is going to do what?"  Family and friends may volunteer but face the fact that they are not professionals.  Let your guests be guests.  The coordinator will make sure that all facets of the wedding and reception are running smoothly, they will handle all negotiations (within your contract) with vendors, venue, decor', set up/breakdown and not to mention the unwanted party crashers.  Take a breath, relax and let the coordinator do his/her job.  I have never had a bride complain about using a planner; in fact they say that it's the best money that they spent. 

#2.  Budget

First things first...have a concise budget and stick with it.  Money is the major stress of weddings; make budget your priority after getting engaged.  Sit down with all parties participating and go over your game plan. Don't wast time looking at venues that you can't afford or looking at centerpieces, floral arrangements and menu's that will leave you in debt way beyond the "honeymoon stage".  Inform your vendors of your allotted budget for their services without compromise.  Your honeymoon should also be included in this cost.

#3.  Over Accommodation

This is your day and should be as Unique and Special as you are.  It's easy to get caught up with trying to please everyone but let's be clear, this is one occasion where it is all about you!  Opinions of others are just that and should not weigh on your decisions about your wedding.  Don't feel guilty either as it's okay to have it your way. 

#4.  Excessive Control

The term" Bridezilla" is most commonly used to describe a bride that has turned as green as the hulk with the temperament of King Kong fighting Godzilla while on a quest to have his way.  This is what happens to the most pleasant Bride if she refuses to give up the control.  Having the attitude that nobody is capable of doing their part is going to leave you more frustrated, unpleasant to be around and few friends less than what you started out with.  Having your vision and wanting things to go perfect is expected, but trying to control everything as if you are running a training camp is not a good look.  After all, if you turn off your friends during the wedding process due to a controlling attitude who are you going to celebrate all of the happy times with later on down the road.  Keep the peace and let go!